Monday, November 13, 2006
esplanade again, wid song n zoey. haha was pretty fun la. tried to teach zoey some new stuff n more motivated to workhard le. improved on my 90s wid gregs help, spinning feels good la =P
i realized i hate judging people.
around 2 years ago, edmund was totally different. he was like some wanabe, act cool guy who does everything he can to be "cool", while hating on people for simplest things. yea i was a jackass =P but hey at that time i really didnt think so. i tought i was just a normal dude and even cool to do those things. but as i became a christian, i really grew up. my eyes really opened up to whats right and wrong, and i stopped that nonsense, altough i have still much to learn and mature.
but my point is. everyone is inperfect. so why cant we give people a chance to improve or help them out instead of judging them. hey it doesnt affect you anyway so why hate on others while we can help them out if their character flaw is that much of an eyesore. well to me, even people like hitler does not deserve to be condemned forever by us. what if he actually walks out of the darkness and changes? everyone deserves a chance.
just now i was talking to zoey and song bout smoking, and i really feel that people should not be condemned for an addiction. hey taking the 1st one was a mistake but does that mean we should haunt on that one mistake forever , when we can actually give a chance for the guy to fight it. like i said, when the person makes the 1st mistake, he wont be thinking "this is wrong, i shouldnt do it" like what i was 2 years ago.
everyone (well most) see the world through 2 eyes, face similar problems and make mistakes. so actually before we judge someone, why not we look at the world through his eyes. his background his influence, and instead of hating, feel pity and try to help. no one in his own opinion feels that his point of view of life and his attitude towards others is wrong.
so yea, give a second chance. and make the world a better place (< lol)